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13Aug/100

It’s time to do some house cleaning.

I was just playing around with some .me domains. Wow. There are so many great ones that nobody has yet...what, you think I'm gonna tell you?

Anyway, this weekend would normally be one that I'd spend with my kids, but I'm afraid that I need to take a break and stop putting things off and really look around and take stock of myself.

My financial state is dismal. My emotional state is worse. My sanity...let's say it's not there.

The plan is to find a way to make it where I can not just scrape by, but to survive and possibly even thrive. So I will be looking over my past debts, my current income and bills, and my future projections, setting some new goals (both personal and financial), and trying to figure out who I am and where I'm going.

Should be a fun experience.

 


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17Apr/10Off

Forcing Myself to Save Money

Photo by Alamosbasement

Since starting my new job, I've been slowly looking for my pathway to awesome. By that, I mean I'm finally tired of being broke all of the time. There have been many times lately that I have to decide between necessities like auto insurance and rent. Fortunately, I've been able to almost make things work except for this past week, where my check was two days short (due to circumstances beyond my control). Because of that, I managed to pay about half of my bi-weekly rent payment and had to forgo the car insurance and getting the brakes worked on (which is a pretty nasty combination...heh).

One of the fundamental problems with my income is that I pay 25% of my bring-home pay in child support. I earn $12 per hour at my job, so that pretty much puts me on a $9 per hour level from the start. Here's a little rundown of my expenses:

-Child Support: Aprox. $400/month
-Rent: $400/month
-Auto Insurance: $45/month
-Fuel: $120/month (if I cruise around a bit)

My grocery bill fluctuates depending on how I want to do things. I give myself a little bit of flexibility there.

So, here's how this works:

Total estimated bring-home: $1600
Total estimated expenses: $965

That tells me that I *should* have around $635 left at the end of the month. Somehow, it doesn't work out that way very often, and I'm panicking about being short on money. Like this week, when my paycheck was about 17 hours short.

I really haven't done a lot to track my expenses, honestly. I have very few bills and want to put myself in a position where I can feel a bit more comfortable about spending a little bit once in a while. With the recent divorce, I've been stressed out a lot. And when I get stressed out, I blow money like a madman. Don't even ask how fast I blew threw my income tax return...

So how do I make myself save money? Well for starters, I need to cut back a bit on the social life. One would think that for someone who suffers from severe depression and hasn't gone out with friends in about ten years would need to get out there, and I do. I enjoy going places with my friends, but the problem is that whenever I go out, I spend money. Granted I might not blow a metric buttload of cash in one night, but it does tend to add up. Ten bucks here, twenty there...do that three or four times per week and the well will run dry awful soon. By cutting back to maybe once per week, I will be able to keep a lot of cash in my pocket.

Another thing I've started doing lately may seem a bit silly, but many people have done this successfully: putting loose change in a jar. I have an older plastic glass that I use to toss my change in whenever I think about it. Well, I usually keep the quarters in my pocket, but anything else goes in the cup. What does this do for me? Other than giving me a small break from all of the crap I haul around in my pockets on a daily basis, it's one of those little self-disciplines that I never did learn. But now, I'm getting there. Not to mention, once the glass fills up I'll have a nice little pile of change. I haven't decided what I'm going to spend it on, but we will see about that when the time comes.

The third thing I'm trying to do is to stop eating out so often. I like fast food. I'm a fan of the McDouble. But for a while, the only thing I was eating was take out. I've noticed that it really puts the hurt on my pocketbook. Not to mention, I'm huge. If I ever want to lose some weight, I had really better start eating better. The solution? Go shopping! I've learned that cooking at home lets me eat better food for less money. I mean, why spend $3 for ONE chorizo and egg burrito at Jack In The Box, when I can go to Kroger (with my Kroger card...which I love), spend a little more, but make about 6-8 of them? There is a savings there, and lets face it: my breakfast burritos are freaking awesome.

One day I would like to be able to take a real vacation. I have never done that. I'm 31 now, and the one time that I did take a week off from work, I stayed home and did nothing. I would also like to be able to afford to buy the things I like. Most of what I have was given to me (or I paid for during the course of the divorce), so my bills are relatively low. There's really no reason that I shouldn't be able to get a foothold on beating my financial woes.

That is my new goal.

 


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18Jan/09Off

How I Will Save $400 Per Month Starting This Week

For a while now, my main goal has not been to get us out of debt exactly. It's true, we have a little bit (from a long time ago, eating away our credit rating). However, what bothers me the most isn't that we only owe a couple thousand bucks total, but the fact that no matter how much money I bring home every week, it just isn't enough to have any left over.

Yeah, right. Something doesn't sit well with me at all about that. For starters, I'm not the one who really takes care of what gets purchased. Oddly enough, neither is my wife. Unfortunately, there's not a whole lot that I can do to fix it right now (mostly because nobody will get on board with me for the sake of their sanity).

So here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to eliminate the car note.

No, I'm not paying it off. I'm letting the car company take it back.

Wait, before you tell me that a repo is a horrible thing to have on your credit report, let me emphasize that I totally agree with you. It is a bad thing.

Unless it's not on your credit.

See, this car that I'm paying for was purchased by my father-in-law. The car is only in his name, not even his wife's name. Go figure. Well, he passed away about a year and a half ago. The car was passed to me and my family along with an almost $400 per month note (probably more, when you factor in all of the late fees and charges for paying at an authorized agent - $10 per month!!!).

So basically, I'm paying for something that I didn't want in the first place (because I said I couldn't afford it), took anyway (to help out the mother-in-law, as well as my family), and just as predicted, I couldn't afford.

So they can have it back. That's more money in my pocket. Fortunately, it's income tax season. I should be getting a decent chunk back, and I'll just buy the best used car or truck that I can find. Heck, it's not like I go anywhere except for work anyway.

I probably should put some of that $400 in a savings account. Oh wait, I don't have control of my cashflow (except the tiny bits I earn online, which help get me through the week on the road).

2009 will be the year that I begin to take back control of my financial life. I will be keeping track of this on this site. Isn't it great when blogs evolve? Plus, you will get to know me a bit better, and maybe get some of my tips. I also hope you share your advice with me as well. I need all the help I can get.

This will be like trying to stop an advancing tank with a water pistol. What fun.

 


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